![]() ![]() Partner’s Pluto Conjunct/ Square Your Ascendant Control and jealousy in extremes are not healthy for either partner. ![]() Financial exploitation in relationships is abuse and many women – and men- have realized too late that what began as passion devolved into something much less romantic. If you have this contact in synastry it is very important that you keep control of your own finances, consider separate bank accounts and – prior to marriage - consider a prenuptial agreement, clearly defining what belongs to whom. This, as with all Pluto contacts, can feel very “protective” and like love in the beginning, but as it plays out in the relationship ( and especially should the relationship breakdown) there will be extreme difficulty placed on the Venus person when they attempt to extract themselves from the control of the Pluto person. The Pluto person will feel an overwhelming need to control the personal resources of the Venus person, which is often money, but can also be their talents, physical body, or who they can and cannot socialize with – anything Venusian in their partner. In my experience looking at relationship charts, the most consistent outcome I see with this aspect is financial abuse. ![]() Don’t exacerbate this contact with alcohol or drug use – it can lead to costly mistakes in judgement. And it will often feel like exactly that when you are in your partner’s presence – like you are in a fog, or drunk, or lightheaded. Unless there are more solid outlets between your two Mercuries, you can very easily end up deceived and disillusioned as the relationship progresses. Fact check, don’t accept ambiguities, and don’t expect your normal logic and intuitive faculties to be enough to penetrate the Neptunian fog here. It will be a heady mix of hearing what you want to hear, being lied to, lying to your partner, and a sense of all out confusion as to what the meaning is behind anything that is said. Similar to Neptune/Sun there will be a strong sense of not understanding your partner in this relationship. Partner’s Neptune Square/ Opposite Your Mercury The risk of not knowing can lead to major disappointment or loss the deeper into the relationship you go. Be willing to listen to the NEGATIVE feedback about your partner – you are not likely to see them as anything more than a saint, and you will need a lot of data to come to a strong conclusion as to whether they really are who you think they are. Before making a strong commitment, do your research – know their friends, family and even previous relationship partners to get a better idea of who they really are. ![]() Your partner may be intentionally trying to deceive you, pretend to be someone they are not in order to appeal to you, or generally have an escapist personality that is hard to pin down. This can be self-delusion or fantasy in you or your partner. You do not see your partner clearly with their Neptune in challenging aspect to your Sun. Partner’s Neptune Square/ Opposite Your Sun The beauty of astrology is its ability to allow us to articulate what can be very complex challenges in our personalities and in our relationships. The more aware we are the greater chance we have of protecting ourselves in relationships and identifying potential issues further down the road. What I offer below is a list of aspects that can bring complications and potential harm if either party is not consciously aware of their behavior and working actively to overcome it. A relationship and a natal chart read in its entirety – meaning all the aspects and angles considered, along with the individual(s) personal background(s) – is important and necessary before drawing meaningful conclusions. Before I start, please note that no one aspect can make or break a relationship, or define the complete potential of a person. ![]()
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